One of the biggest mistakes we all make is seeing ourselves through the wrong Mirror, I will share my own personal experience and explain how we can better see ourselves.
As Young people intentional about their growth with so much passion, gifting, and zeal, especially those with vision and foresight to where they’re going, as they journey to turning out great, I think we expect so much from ourselves, and in the end, we define who we are.
On Easter 2021, the day we proclaim that Jesus rose, I was recuperating from an illness and decided to go say hi to a friend. When I looked into the mirror in transit, I saw that my face looked rather long. Could there be a reason why my face appears longer than normal? Me black spec the thought of having to maintain my beauty sort of worried me
I glanced away from the mirror and looked back at it, but it was the same, I tried to block my gaze from the side mirror, but couldn’t avoid it because I was sitting right there, it was a hard one. Being a round Faced person, I am accustomed to my face, and I am very content with it, thus my concern about my long face.
Did the sickness have anything to do with it? What would people think of me? What is this? My brain raced in split seconds to try to comprehend how I got here, so I asked someone to help me take a look, is this a reflection of reality? Upon my asking, she confidently replied NO.
In the end I realized I was looking in the wrong mirror the whole time. As individuals, we can sometimes become so hard on ourselves when we feel like we have so much to give the world. A person’s frame of reference really matters in shaping and reshaping his or her mood and personal beliefs.
It would be nice if we could just chill.
If you genuinely wish to become that person you’ve envisioned, then you must really chill out.
I know that you have a lot of stuff to get done, and although you pray for a long life, I can feel that you don’t want to be relegated from your life, okay? Wouldn’t it be nice if you could take a moment and be thankful for what you currently have going for you? In other words, when you’re thankful for what you have achieved, you gain the ability to do more.
Thankfulness entails a certain capability.
Stop judging yourself so harshly, and see things from an entirely different perspective, angles in photography result in a kind of perfection you never imagined, only the insightful will see them.
Everything depends on the angle you look from. So, take another look.